In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 12 June 2012

Chat up ?

I've been down again all week. Everything seems so bad and against me. I've seriously been thinking of leaving the theatre group this week as all kinds of crap has been going on. It feels like some folk are conspiring against me and saying I said things I haven't and I haven't got the strength to fight anymore. Work is horrid still and I just want out but I can't. I've cried every day driving to and from work. I don't know if it was made worse by my husband coming over on Sunday. I need some changes in my life but how ?

At work today a fellow starting talking to me (someone over this week for some training) and I think he was starting to chat me up ! I'm guessing of course because I really don't know :-o Hmmmm....... maybe its the eyelash extensions I had done last week ?

I'm off to Spain for the weekend to visit some friends with two friends -  I think it will be an interesting weekend.  I really need the break - but work has made me feel so guilty about going. It will be great to get some sun and just chill.

A couple of the most unexpected people have offered to be a friend and listen to me - how nice is that :-)
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