In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 15 August 2025

Fourteen and a half years later

This will be my last post for the blog. It’s been fourteen and a half years since my ex left me for the other woman. I still don’t want to have anything to do with her so am civil but not chatty to her at family events. I’ll never forget the hurt she (and he) caused me but I have moved on. He asked me at a recent 

I’m excited to say my parter is now my fiancé and we are planning to get married next year. He proposed to me on one knee when we were on holiday recently and I said yes ❤️ 

We have an amazing relationship and people assume we are already married! Life is great together 😊 

So there is hope when you’ve been in a dark place due to an unwanted relationship breakup. Onto a new chapter now x


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