OMG !!! What a week.....
Well..... I met another guy via the dating site at the beginning of May and it seemed to be going ok though there was something that didn't feel quite right to me so my guard was still up. I thought maybe it was just me because I struggle trusting folk since my ex did what he did for me. Anyhow last night I was contacted by a lady who claims to have dated this chap and that he had conned her out of money. She said she had been contacted the day before by another lady who told her about a lots of bad things and lies he had done to a number of women. She contacted me and many others he had as Facebook friends to warn them. I was a bit cautious at the beginning as I wasn't sure if it was just a previous date who was jealous or something. Anyhow as the conversation went on I decided to text him to say I had been contacted and to ask some questions. He came back on the defence initially but eventually when I challenged him to explain a few things including an article I found suggesting he had been done for Fraud and why he still had two profiles on the site though he said he had come off completely I have not heard back from him. I have to admit its rather scary as he knows where I live. I've told most of the friends who knew I was seeing him that it was over.
Thankfully I've already had a special video bell and CCTV installed for protection.......
I'm directing a show for my local theatre group and last week I had someone in the cast who is alcohol dependant accuse me of being discriminatory and was very rude and threatening. Since that she has apologised profusely as she was under the influence, but that shook me up as I try and support and help everyone. Needless to say she has decided not to do the show now.
And then I hear that my ex's brother has stage four pancreatic cancer which has spread to the stomach and spleen :-( Very sad. My ex happened to be down at the theatre group last night and he has lost lots of weight but I think he looked ill. It annoys me that despite me trying to help him lose weight lots of times he never really tried and now he does !
I've still not had an appointment with the Rheumatologist but the pains seems to be getting less which is a good thing. I certainly felt much better in the hot weather. It feels like the pain has been on a curve which reached its peak around March so if the curve is equal I might be better in July. Fingers crossed.
On the happy side - my daughter got a first in her dissertation and both daughters have new jobs which makes them happy so I'm happy :-)
Right now I have to work out where I'm going on holiday later this year :-)
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