Tomorrow will be seven years since my ex left me for the manipulating *****. Do I care anymore ? Hmmm definitely not from the perspective of do I miss him or want him back as I am now in a very happy, caring, trusting relationship with a man who loves me for who I am and continually tells me that even after nearly five months from our first date. I hate personal failure and still feel I failed somehow as another woman stole my ex. But I'll have to get over that and I believe my fantastic boyfriend will help me with that healing process.
We both posted on Facebook that we were in a relationship with each other. I've had so many lovely comments from people saying how happy we look together and how happy they are for us - that brings a tear to my eye to know how much people really care about me - I'm rather overwhelmed with the love from everyone :-D
I've had a few people also say that its 'official now - it must be as its on Facebook' ! Facebook is now seen as such an important and defining medium ..... ironic really as it was Facebook that the manipulating ***** used to get her claws around my ex initially.
We have so many great plans for 2018 together and both believe we are in this relationship for teh long term - so lots to be excited about.
Happy New Year !! Wishing any readers a fantastic 2018 - I know mine will be :-))))
In the beginning
On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx